Give chances

You know that guy you labeled "a good friend"?  So many guys, good guys, get trapped in this bubble.  These guys are the world's greatest secret!  They're the ones you turn to when you need a shoulder to cry on or when you want to hang out.  They're some of the most polite people you'll probably ever meet.  Some people wonder why they're still single.  Well in all honesty sometimes it is us girls; we just don't give out chances to the good guys, the guys we can always depend on or are dependable.  Sometimes we do give them chances and it's okay if things don't work out.  I've dated a lot and something I've noticed is the guys who can usually get a girl are the ones who know what to say and how to say it but have no meaning behind it.  It's like they're reading a script.  Heads up, they don't actually mean a word they say most of the time.  I challenge anyone who reads this and who is still single to give that good guy or good girl (because as much as this happens to the guys it happens to us girls) a chance.  Who knows, you might find someone you really like and you might find someone who is a legit good person.